Long-lasting and happy relationship

     Relationships should be easy. They should be easy from the very beginning. From the first minutes. The person with whom you immediately feel like an old acquaintance suits you better than the one with whom you have been with for years, but you have never felt truly close.

     The partner with whom you feel calm and confident is better than the one for whom you cried and waited for years. A woman who immediately shows interest is better than a cold beauty who needs to be constantly impressed and pursued.

     Simple is good. Difficult is bad. This is a truth that does not need to be proven. And in a relationship you do not have to prove anything at all - neither your worth, nor your right to be loved. There is no need to chase anyone. There is no need to adapt forcibly. There is no need to run after anyone.

     If you start doing it once, you will do it all the time. And in return you will only get dissatisfaction and coldness.

     If feelings don't develop naturally, don't try to force things. This is simply not your person. Complex relationships are only needed by people who are afraid of peace and need suffering to feel alive. For everyone else, they bring only pain and exhaustion.

     Don't take on the burden of complex relationships.

     Relationships in which you constantly limit yourself, break yourself, and live according to someone else's terms destroy your personality.

     Sooner or later, patience runs out. So don't let yourself stay where you lose yourself.

     Relationships should bring joy. As soon as a relationship stops bringing joy and starts bringing pain, it loses its meaning. This is not love. This is destruction.

     When joy disappears, a relationship loses its vitality. When conversations begin to take away your inner peace, choose silence.

     When accusations begin, step back.

     When someone tries to guilt you — don't accept that burden. Walk away.

     Because relationships exist to bring happiness. A true relationship is one in which there is ease. A true relationship is one in which there is joy. A true relationship is one in which you can be yourself.

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