Communication is one of the most important components of a healthy relationship. Without open communication, honesty and frankness, long-term love is unthinkable. However, at the beginning of a relationship, mixed signals from your partner often appear. He shows both interest and desire for you, but at the same time withdraws, demonstrates disinterest and busyness, rejecting your invitations to meet.
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In our desire to arouse interest in the other and to remain interesting to him in the future, we take a number of confusing steps that can throw our partner into a real adventure until he deciphers our mixed signals.
If you have also found yourself in a similar situation in which you are flooded with mixed signals and wonder how to decipher them, here are a few possible interpretations.
He texts you frequently but doesn't include you in his plans to go out
If you've been dating someone for a while, you probably want to spend more time together getting to know each other. That's not going to happen if you're just texting. You're exchanging flirty messages, sparking each other's attention and interest, but that's about it. You can't help but wonder if this person really wants to get to know you or if they're just looking for sex when they need it.
He's unavailable and inconsistent
If your only channel of communication is a social media site and the person you're dating isn't very active on it, texting can be really time-consuming. You'll text them something and they'll reply the next day or a few days later. This can be really annoying, especially if their messages are clearly interested but don't match their inconsistency. These mixed signals can be really confusing.
He says he wants a serious relationship, but doesn't show it
One of the most confusing signals your partner can give you is his desire for a serious relationship in words, but his actions completely contradict this statement. He may promise you many things, but keep you at a distance from his life. If your relationship remains superficial for too long, this may mean that he is lying to you about his intentions.
He is only present when it is convenient for him
When a person wants to be with another in a real relationship, the most serious indicator of this is his presence. If your partner makes room in his schedule and commitments for you, then he has serious intentions for you and has feelings. However, if he never has time for you and only looks for you when it is convenient for him, this is a very confusing and mixed signal that can suggest many things, one of which is that he does not have serious intentions for a relationship. You need to understand the reason for his behavior, because beneath the surface there may be a trivial problem that has nothing to do with his feelings.
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