Just ask him
"What kind of woman do you think I should be?" and listen carefully
to his answer.
Of course, there
are many possible options, but in general we can reduce them to two.
The first option: when a man begins to
actively tell that, in his opinion, a woman should take care of herself and
look good, be feminine, a housewife, gentle and caring, sexual and kind at the
same time. And more - to be interested in the same things as him, to be liked
by his friends and relatives. All in all, his list for the woman of his dreams
is long.
Second option: to say that you should be yourself, that's how he likes you. And if you want to
change something or improve it, he will support you if it really makes you
happy - for him, this is the most important thing.
I think you
yourself understand when a man really loves you and really wants you to be
happy, and when he prefers to "sculpt" his ideal to be with as long
as he can maintain it.
Therefore, draw
the right conclusions and remember that true love is when they accept you with
all your flaws, which, of course, you try to cope with. But you are aware that
they accept you as you are.
That is, you are
already enough and there is no need to jump over yourself every day to keep the
beloved. He appreciates you as you are in substance, he appreciates your
uniqueness - exactly what sets you apart from hundreds of other women, for
which he loves you.
Of course, not
only the answer to the question is of great importance, but also how the man
treats you, that is, whether he backs up his words with actions, which is
really important.
The way a person
perceives you - as an object of improvement to be developed, or as a real
person - with all its pluses and minuses, but still so loved and close is the
most important thing in creating a truly harmonious and happy relationship .
That's exactly what I wish you most sincerely!
Love and take care of each other, good luck!
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